What is a girl to do?

So this past Saturday we decided to go to a new bar in Federal Hill that recently opened up. We got there and settled in with some vodka sodas and perused the scene to see if there were any potential men up to our standards. And by standards I mean, tall, cute and physically fit. Okay, I know if I really want to settle down I should check my standards and try and find a nice guy, even if he is short and maybe isn't all that built. But why should we settle?

So after a few minutes I noticed an extremely cute, but short, bartender who I'll call "M". If there is one thing I don’t have its shame. So I sashayed my way to the bar and asked him for a drink and then proceeded to tell him that he's adorable and we should hang out sometime. Apparently it works and he got my number and I got his! So an hour later, I meet another guy who ill call "P". He was cute too so I spent some time with him and his friends, 3 shots and 2 coors lights later my friends and I decided to call it a night, after of course he got my number. Okay, so time to close my tab? Well, guess what? "M" has lost my card. So I try not to get too angry and he says he'll text me later when he finds it.

Fast forward Sunday morning, I wake up with a text from "M" telling me he found my card! Yay! So I text him back and he responds with a less than warm text back, so I say well Ill call there later to get my card, because I don’t want to put him out. Well, apparently I wasn’t putting him out because he invited me to breakfast, like right then that morning. So off I go to breakfast and then out to my friend’s house on the river. Well "M" was apparently so enamored that he texted me Sunday night and came out on Monday night for the Raven's game and on Tuesday called me and invited me to a concert this Friday. How about that! I'll keep you guys updated with "M". Apparently I'm his good luck charm...more on that later.

I also woke up with a text from "W" on Sunday morning asking me to come over the next am. "W" is a guy that I have been "dating"-if you want to use that term, for about a month. The problem with "W" is I am not sure what exactly he wants. It started as just sex, but now I think he wants more and well I don’t know what I want.

"W" and I have been trying to get together for about 10 days with no such luck, so you guessed it I did not see "W" on Sunday. I am about to give up on him when he texts me that he wants to cook me dinner and drink wine and watch a movie on Tuesday night, so I say yes. This is where it gets complicated. I thought we were just having sex?

Monday rolls around and I decide not to text "W", since he said he would text me to figure out dinner. Well, guess who I didn't hear from Monday? If you said, "W" you’re right!

Monday night we decide to go to the bar and meet "M" to watch the Ravens game, well guess who strolls in (thankfully we were trying to leave)? "P" walks in with his crew from Saturday night. Now thankfully I was able to get the girls to leave and go to another bar with me and "M" so crisis diverted, but I haven’t heard from "P" since Saturday night so who really knows. All in all great night and next morning with "M".

So now it's Tuesday and I figure that "W" is going to not text and dinner will be off. 3pm rolls around and my phone goes off I'm thinking its "M" since we texted earlier in the day, but no it's "W". Just so you all understand "W" he’s a stubborn, Irish Italian and sarcastic, but totally makes my heart flutter man. This is word for word what he said, "So pretty excited to hang out huh? All your texts are outta control!" I responded with "I have no idea what that means" He said, "I haven’t heard from you it was sarcastic" "Do you still want to hang?" So here's where I say to myself...wtf? I don’t text you for one day and you send me that? Is that a backwards way of saying "I really want to see you, but I am going to make a joke out of it?" So after a few more texts we plan on 7:30.

"W" ends up not coming over till 9ish because he got stuck at work. So we just watch a movie and go to bed. Now mind you I haven’t seen "W" for almost 2 weeks, so I'm thinking I'm going to get some tonight, but no no no. Apparently we don't have to sleep together every time we hang out; he just likes hanging out with me. What happen to just sex? "W" is super cute all night, snuggling and all. The next day we say our goodbyes. We text a bit during the day, but I don’t really speak to him all that much. I proceed to go to a work happy hour and when I get home I notice that my bed is made. Now I didn’t make my bed before we left my house this morning, because "W" was still in it, while I was downstairs making my breakfast. So I text "W" and ask him if he made my bed and he did. How sweet is that? Yes, so now I don’t know what to do with him.

So that pretty much sums up what has been going on recently in my love life. What do you guys think? Keep them both around for now and see what happens?

xoxo
K